Relationships, Love and Romance

February 12, 2021

About love and romance

Tony Robbins

Tony Robbins (famous American entrepreneur, top business and relationship coach, and also a well-known self-help author) said, "True love isn't something you get by luck, or something you build just because you're compatible. True love that lasts is the product of hard work. There are only three ways to build a special relationship with your partner: learn to respect and not reject your partner's ideas, take the time to understand their wonderful personality, and find fun ways to resolve negativity and monotony."

Reference: https://www.tonyrobbins.com/ultimate-relationship-guide/

Essential Oils for Love

Aromatherapy is a great way to foster love. In fact, some essential oils have been considered aphrodisiacs throughout history because of their ability to stimulate passionate feelings. Make your Valentine's Day or anniversary special with these essential oils.

1. Ylang-ylang

Ylang-ylang has a relaxing effect, and its sweet floral scent is popular for romance. The exotic scent can ease anxiety and release inhibitions. In fact, it is customary to scatter ylang-ylang petals on the bed of newlyweds. Ylang-ylang has a strong scent that can be overpowering, but it pairs well with bright citrus oils. Create a space of love with a blend of sweet ylang-ylang and uplifting orange and clary sage.

Honeymoon Night Diffusion

3 drops ylang-ylang essential oil
3 drops of sweet orange essential oil
2 drops of clary sage essential oil

Simply place a few drops of these essential oils in a diffuser and place it in your bedroom. Follow the instructions on the diffuser to make the adjustments.

2. Ginger

As the essential oil of love, it is said to have a very stimulating earthy scent like ginger. It is a warming oil and has been traditionally used to improve blood flow. It is believed to help develop courage and self-confidence.

Homemade ginger massage oil

10 drops ginger essential oil
6 drops of sweet orange essential oil
1/4 cup sweet almond oil
Glass bottle, 60mL size

Cooking:

Place ingredients in a glass jar.
Shake well.
Simply pour the oil into your hands, warm it up to body temperature, and massage into the desired area.

3. Rose

The floral scent of blooming roses is thought to convey affection, compassion and comfort. Not only does rose support women's reproductive health, its scent has also been shown to have a calming effect, creating an environment of relaxation that helps foster intimacy.

Pucker Up Scrub

1 teaspoon honey
2 teaspoons brown sugar
2 drops rose essential oil

Stir all ingredients together until you get a smooth paste. Apply a small amount to your lips with your fingertips and rinse with warm water.

4. Sandalwood

Sandalwood may not be your first choice of essential oil for love, but its warm, woody scent is used to help calm the nerves and promote sexual feelings, especially in men. Set the tone for romance with this exotic scent.

"I love you" linen spray

Sandalwood 35 drops
35 drops of pineapple
30 drops lavender

Prepare a 120mL spray bottle. Add 1/8 cup of vodka and mix the essential oils listed above. Leave it for about 5 minutes, then add distilled water and Mist Linen to the bottle.

5. Neroli

Neroli is an excellent oil for anxiety and nervousness, as it is a citrus oil that can help settle your mood by calming the nerves, and can also be used alone as a perfume.

Steamy Synergy

2 drops of neroli
1 drop of rose
3 drops geranium

This essential oil blend is perfect for adding to a bath. Simply add 1 oz of carrier oil to 1 cup of Epsom salts and add to your bath water.

6. Clary sage

Clary sage is known for balancing female hormones and relieving feminine problems. Its unique herbal scent has the power to promote relaxation and it is often used as an aphrodisiac.

First Love Sachet

3 drops geranium
4 drops clary sage
6 drops sweet orange

Create your own potpourri using dried herbs and this lovely oil blend, then store it in your lingerie drawer.

7. Jasmine

Jasmine is one of the famous essential oils for love romance. It has been used since ancient times as an aphrodisiac for both men and women. The intense floral aroma is effective in lifting your mood and boosting your self-confidence. Try applying a little of this stimulating scent on the inside of your wrist, behind your ears, and other pulse points.

Enchantress Perfume

4 drops jasmine
3 drops of frankincense
3 drops sweet orange

Add the oil blend and your preferred carrier oil to a 10mL roll-on container. Shake well before use.

Reference: https://helloglow.co/essential-oils-for-love/

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Essential Oils for Love + How to Use Them

Relationships, Love and Romance

TONY ROBBINS

Tony Robbins (American Famous Business and Relationship Coach) says truly extraordinary and successful relationships don't come to people because they are lucky, unusually well-matched, completely similar or drowning in great chemistry. Extraordinary, loving, long-lasting, healthy relationships are the products of hard work, determination and the applied practice of the laws of love. Learning how to never question the intent of your partner, to take the time to appreciate what makes them unique and wonderful and finding ways to interrupt negative or repetitive patterns in fun and interesting ways are just three of the laws that can help you create an extraordinary relationship.

Source: https://www.tonyrobbins.com/ultimate-relationship-guide/

Essential Oils for Love + How to Use Them

Aromatherapy can play a powerful role in relationships—in fact, some essential oils are so good at sparking passionate feelings that they're believed to be aphrodisiacs. This Valentine's Day, or for your next special anniversary, spice things up with one of these essential oils for love and romance.

1. Ylang ylang

The sweet floral aroma of ylang ylang has a relaxing effect that makes it popular for romance. The exotic scent calms anxiety and is believed to help release inhibitions. In fact, petals of the ylang ylang flower have traditionally been scattered on the beds of newlyweds. Ylang ylang has a strong scent, which can become overwhelming, but it pairs well with bright citrus oils. Put some love in the air with this blend of sweet ylang ylang and uplifting orange and clary sage.

Honeymoon Night Diffusion

3 drops ylang ylang
3 drops sweet orange
2 drops of clear sage

Just drop these essential oils into an electric diffuser, adjusting the ratio as needed for your machine, and set it up in your bedroom.

2. Ginger

When it comes to essential oils for love, the musky, earthy aroma of ginger is said to be very arousing. A warming oil that has traditionally been used to get the blood flowing, ginger is believed to help with building feelings of courage and confidence.

Homemade Ginger Massage Oil

10 drops Ginger essential oil
6 drops sweet orange essential oil
1/4 cup Sweet Almond Oil
2 fl oz Glass Pump Bottle

Directions:

Add ingredients into glass bottle
Shake well
To use, squirt 2-3 pumps into palm and warm oil between hands then massage onto desired location and enjoy.

3. Rose

The blooming floral fragrance of pure rose oil is thought to bring about feelings of love, care, and comfort. Not only does rose oil support women's reproductive health, its aroma has been shown to have a calming effect, which also creates an environment of relaxation that can help foster intimacy.

Pucker up scrub

1. Teaspoon honey
2 teaspoons brown sugar
2 drops rose

Stir all ingredients together until you have a smooth paste. Apply a small amount to your lips using your fingertips, then rinse with warm water.

4. Sandalwood

Sandalwood might not be your first pick for essential oils for love, but its warm, woody aroma soothes nerves and is often used to help promote sexual feelings, especially in men. Spritz your linens to set the scene with this exotic aroma.

"I love you" linen spray

35 drops sandalwood
35 drops pine
30 drops lavender

Fill a 4-ounce spray bottle with 1/8 cup vodka (the higher the proof, the better), and add the essential oils. Let sit for 5 minutes, then fill the bottle with distilled water and mist linens.

5. Neroli

A great oil for anxiety, neroli is a delicate citrus oil that can set the mood by helping to calm the nerves. You can even wear it by itself as a light perfume.

Steamy synergy

2 drops of neroli
1 drop rose
3 drops geranium

This is a lovely blend for diffusing or adding to your bath. Add essential oils to one ounce of carrier oil, then dissolve into 1 cup Epsom salt and add to a warm bath.

6. Clary Sage

Clary sage is known for its usefulness in women's menstrual issues, but the unique musky, herbal scent is also frequently used as an aphrodisiac due to its ability to promote feelings of relaxation.

Love-at-first-scent sachets

3 drops geranium
4 drops of clear sage
6 drops of sweet orange

You can scent dried rosebuds with this pretty blend to create a passion-inspiring potpourri mix. Just pour it into small cotton bags, then store them in your lingerie drawer. Or transfer the potpourri to a decorative bowl on your nightstand or dresser.

7. Jasmine

One of our favorite essential oils for love, the sultry scent of jasmine has long been used as an aphrodisiac for both men and women. The heady floral aroma can help boost your mood and promote feelings of confidence. Try a bit of this evocative scent on the inside of your wrists, behind your ears, and on other pulse points.

Enchantress perfume